What do you really want?

Weddings.  We are sure what we want, right? The answer is yes.  Go with your gut.  Often, I meet with a bride and groom, and they say "I know I want x, but I could do this too" and then we get into an endless cycle of what if, and how about.  Your wedding is, well your wedding.  The ceremony (i.e. the important part) will be great as long as you and your spouse is there.  The reception, is well, a party.  Yes, it's important, and you have a vision.  However, you will probably have other parties.  So plan what you want, whatever that is.  

Is a cute little traditional church ceremony your thing? Do it!

Have you always dreamed of the sun setting over the ocean while you share your first kiss? 

Don't forget that image.

City hall weddings are fine, just don't forget to do some special things for your special day

You know what you want.  So set all your other choices up around that.  Don't get stuck in the what ifs: what if there is a better location? what if there is a better option? what if, what if, what if.  Choose your time of year, your day and your location.  You already know what is a non negotiable for the two of you.  So relax, make memories, surround yourselves with loved ones.   As always, the party is fun, but the happily ever after should always be the focal point.